Big idea: This lesson covers the Grade 5 expectation to describe the processes of menstruation and spermatogenesis, and explain how these processes relate to reproduction and overall development (D1.4).
About this content: This lesson is part of Ontario's human development and sexual health expectations. In Ontario, parents may request that their child be exempted (opted out) from human development and sexual health instruction at school; ask your school about its process. If your child is exempted, you may skip this lesson at home too, or teach it in your own way.
The lesson explains fertilization as "a sperm cell and an egg cell join" and does not describe sexual intercourse; in Ontario, that is taught in later grades. If your child asks how the sperm reaches the egg, you can answer according to your family's values, or say it will be covered when they're older.
How to help at home:
- Make the puberty kit together and show your child where period products are kept at home.
- Normalize: "Periods and wet dreams happen to almost everyone as they grow up."
- Make sure all children learn about both processes, so they can be understanding and kind to classmates.
- Talk with your doctor if your child has very painful periods, very heavy bleeding, or worries about their development.
Common difficulties: confusing ovulation with menstruation; thinking a period is an injury; embarrassment about erections or wet dreams.
This lesson builds self-awareness (A1.5) and coping (A1.2) by making these changes less worrying.